TIPS FOR EFFECTIVELY COMMUNICATING
WITH PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES
- When talking with a person with a disability, speak directly
to that person, rather than through a companion or sign language
interpreter who may be present.
- When introduced to a person with a disability, it is
appropriate to offer to shake hands. People with limited hand use or
who wear an artificial limb can usually shake hands. (Shaking hands
with the left hand is an
acceptable greeting.)
- When meeting a person with a visual impairment, always
identify yourself and others who may by with you. When conversing in a
group, remember to identify the person to whom you are speaking.
- If you offer assistance, wait until the offer is accepted.
Then listen to or ask for instructions.
- Treat adults as adults. Address people who have disabilities
by their first names only when extending the same familiarity to all
others present. (Never patronize people who use wheelchairs by patting
them on
the head or shoulder.)
- Leaning, hanging or propping your feet on a person’s
wheelchair is similar to leaning or hanging on a person and is
generally considered annoying. The chair is part of the personal body
space of the person who uses it.
- Listen attentively when you are talking with a person who
has difficulty speaking. Be patient and wait for the person to finish,
rather than correcting or speaking for the person. If necessary, ask
short questions that require short answers, a nod or a shake of the
head. Never pretend
to understand if you are having difficulty doing so. Instead, repeat
what
you have understood and allow the person to respond.
- When speaking with a person in a wheelchair or a person who
uses crutches, place yourself at eye level in front of the person
to facilitate the conversation.
- To get the attention of a person who is hearing-impaired,
tap the person on the shoulder or wave your hand. Look directly at the
person and speak clearly, slowly and expressively to establish that the
person
can read your lips. Not all people with a hearing impairment can
lip-read.
For those who do lip-read, be sensitive to their needs by placing
yourself facing the light source and keeping hands, cigarettes
and food away from your mouth when speaking.
- Relax; don’t be embarrassed if you happen to use accepted,
common expressions such as “See you later”, or “Did you hear about
this”, that
seem to relate to the person’s disability.
Last updated April 4, 2002